What about those dating services that work on the idea that we find compatibility using physical features. Where two compatible people often have similar features. Maybe there is a neckbearded lady out there waiting for you, which might actually be depressing. Or perhaps a lady with awkward social skills and a utilitarian type of haircut and wears whatever glasses happened to match her budget at the time.

If nothing else the the first part of the angels comic may hold truth. Accepting that you don't need to understand attraction or emotional connection to maintain a relationship. And perhaps the willingness to accept attraction may exist towards you, regardless of frequency.