Not all bachelor behaviors need correcting. However in exchange for cooking delicous homemade food on a very regular basis, all I ask is no socks on the floor and a small standard of cleanliness. Seems like a fair trade to me. The guys know what they're signing up for.

I would posit that if straight women could marry gay men we would, but as it is we make exchanges. For example I have completely relinquished even pretending to care about car maintenance. (Yep, we're not breaking any gender stereotypes here.)